Siapa yang dulu...

Siapa yang dulu Ayam atau Telur?

Siapa yang dulu Lelaki atau Perempuan?

Sebenarnya siapa yang dulu tidak penting.

Yang penting ialah kedua-duanya penting!

Kerana tanpa salah satu daripadanya

"Siapalah Aku!"

Kita saling memerlukan dan saling bergantung kepada sesama demi wujud didunia yang bertuah ini!

Sedikit saja..

Ingatlah bahawa sedikit saja yang diperlukan

untuk membuat hidup bahagia.

(Marcus Aurelius)

Tugas utama

"Tugas utama kita didalam hidup bukanlah melihat apa yang tidak jelas dan jauh dari pandangan kita, tetapi membuat apa yang

jelas di hadapan mata kita"(Dale Carnegie).

Kesilapan dan kesalahan

Kesilapan dan kesalahan peribadi atau orang lain bukan untuk diheboh-hebohkan tetapi untuk dihayati dan dipelajari supaya tidak melakukan perkara yang sama agar  menjadi manusia yang lebih baik.

"Gawat dan Berat"

Kita selalunya inginkan  semua yang  indah didalam hidup ini. Tetapi hakikatnya, bukan semua didalam hidup ini indah. Adakalanya kita sedih dan menangis tapi ada masa juga kita gembira dan bahagia; Adakalanya kita menghadapi perbagai masalah, kesusahan, godaan dan cabaran tapi didalam masa yang sama kita juga mengalami kebahagian, kesenangan dan ketenangan hidup. Jadi, bersyukurlah kepada Tuhan didalam apa jua keadaan terutama sekali didalam masa-masa yang  "gawat dan berat" kerana masih ingat kepada Tuhan yang Maha Esa. Amin.

Dance in the rain!

"Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass....It's about learning how to dance in the rain!" Well....We all face problems, disappointments, etc.,...in our life. However, it's not the problems,etc,... but how we react to it that will determine the joy and happiness in our life. During tough times, do we spend too much time feeling sorry for ourselves, or, can we, with gratitude look at the positive side of our life. In otherwords, do we learn how to dance in the rain! Yes! sometimes problems, etc....could be another window into new thing and new opportunity. So, it is not necessary bad for it could be our golden opportunity to make our life better. Be optimistic and remains postive about life even in time of heavy storm!

Jangan paksa....

Kalau orang  tak suka,  jangan paksa nanti sendiri juga yang susah.

Kalau orang tak sayang atau tak cinta pada kita,

jangn paksa nanti sendiri juga yang seksa!

Tidak baik dan tidak adil,  main paksa.

Destiny & Choice

Destiny is not a matter of chance; it is a matter of choice.

It is not a thing to be waited for;

it is a thing to be achieved.

(Willian Jennings Bryan)

Air(Kesusahan/Masalah)

Kadang-kadang Tuhan menarik kita kedalam "air "yang dalam

bukan untuk

menenggelamkan kita tetapi,

untuk menyucikan kita.

Hal memberi

Berilah kerana anda mengerti keadaan orang berkenaan yang memerlukan bantuan dan sokongan. Berilah dengan iklas dan tanpa mengharapkan apa-apa balasan atau ganjaran.

Manusia

Samada orang itu putih atau hitam, kaya atau miskin, cantik atau hodoh, pandai atau bodoh, sempurna atau cacat, tinggi atau rendah, baik atau jahat, beriman atau tidak, berkereta atau tidak, ini tidak menjadi masalah. Yang penting dia adalah seorang manusia yang dicipta oleh Tuhan yang Maha Esa seperti diri kita sendiri juga. Sebab itu, marilah kita saling menghormati sesama tanpa mengenakan apa-apa syarat.

Buatlah yang terbaik...

Apa saja anda lakukan, buatlah yang

terbaik supaya anda mendapat

yang terbaik!

Whole heart

In everything you do, it is important to put your whole heart into it.

(Sir Richard Branson, Founder & owner of Virgin Group)

I shall pass....

I SHALL PASS THROUGH THIS LIFE BUT ONCE.

ANY GOOD, THEREFORE THAT I CAN DO, OR ANY

KINDNESS I CAN SHOW TO ANY FELLOW CREATURE,

LET ME DO IT NOW.

LET ME NOT DEFER OR

NEGLECT IT, FOR I SHALL NOT

PASS THIS WAY AGAIN.

(Etienne de Grellet)

Do...

Do all the good things you can do and talk

nothing about is as little as possible.

(Charles Dickson)

Fair and right

Fighting for justice & equality for the poor & less fortunate: It is the fair thing to do. It's the right thing to do.

(Teddy Kennedy,USA Senator).

Jatuh cinta

Kalau anda jatuh cinta, ini adalah perasaan yang biasa dan normal. Tetapi kalau anda mengadai badan dan iman kerana gara-gara jatuh cinta, inilah adalah diluar-kebiasaan dan tidak normal.

Love story

Posted on October 6, 2008 by carue

I was walking around in a Target store, when I saw a Cashier hand this little boy some money back. The boy couldn’t have been more than 5 or 6 years old. The Cashier said, ‘I’m sorry, but you don’t have enough money to buy this doll. Then the little boy turned to the old woman next to him: ”Granny, are you sure I don’t have enough money?” The old lady replied: ”You know that you don’t have enough money to buy this doll, my dear.” Then she asked him to stay there for just 5 minutes while she went to look a round. She left quickly. The little boy was still holding the doll in his hand. Finally, I walked toward him and I asked him who he wished to give this doll to.

‘It’s the doll that my sister loved most and wanted so much for Christmas. She was sure that Santa Claus would bring it to her.’ I replied to him that maybe Santa Claus would bring it to her after all, and not to worry. But he replied to me sadly. ‘No, Santa Claus can’t bring it to her where she is now. I have to give the doll to my mommy so that she can give it to my sister when she goes there.’ His eyes were so sad while saying this. ‘My Sister has gone to be with God. Daddy says that Mommy is going to see God very soon too, so I thought that she could take the doll with her to give it to my sister.” My heart nearly stopped. The little boy looked up at me and said: ‘I told daddy to tell mommy not to go yet. I need her to wait until I come back from the mall.’Then he showed me a very nice photo of him where he was laughing. He then told me ‘I want mommy to take my picture with her so she won’t forget me. I love my mommy and I wish she doesn’t have to leave me, but daddy says that she has to go to be with my little sister.’ Then he looked again at the doll with sad eyes, very quietly.
I quickly reached for my wallet and said to the boy. ‘Suppose we check again, just in case you do have enough money for the doll?” ‘OK’ he said, ‘I hope I do have enough.’ I added some of my money to his with out him seeing and we started to count it. There was enough for the doll and even some spare money.
The little boy said: ‘Thank you God for giving me enough money!’
Then he looked at me and added, ‘I asked last night before I went to sleep for God to make sure I had enough money to buy this doll, so that mommy could give It to my sister. He heard me!” ‘I also wanted to have enough money to buy a white rose for my mommy, but I didn’t dare to ask God for too much. But He gave me enough to buy the doll and a white rose. My momm y loves white roses.
A few minutes later, the old lady returned and I left with my basket. I finished my shopping in a totally different state from when I started. I couldn’t get the little boy out of my mind. Then I remembered a local news paper article two days ago, which mentioned a drunk man in a truck, who hit a car occupied by a young woman and a little girl. The little girl died right away, and the mother was left in a critical state. The family had to decide whether to pull the plug on the life-sustaining machine, because the young woman would not be able to recover from the coma.
Was this the family of the little boy?
Two days after this encounter with the little boy, I read in the news paper that the young woman had passed away. I couldn’t stop myself as I bought a bunch of white roses and I went to the funeral home where the body o f the young woman was exposed for people to see and make last wishes before her burial. She was there, in her coffin, holding a beautiful white rose in her hand with the photo of the little boy and the doll placed over her chest. I left the place, teary-eyed, feeling that my life had been changed for ever.. The love that the little boy had for his mother and his sister is still, to this day, hard to imagine.
And in a fraction of a second, a drunk driver had taken all this away from him.
Now you have 2 choices:
1) Repost this message, or 2) Ignore it as if it never touched your heart.
For those who prefer to think that God is not watching over us…. go ahead and delete this. For the rest of us… pass this on.
The value of a man or woman resides in what he or she gives, not in what they are capable of receiving… repost it as a story that touches your heart.

Cantik tapi Sombong!

Ada orang kerana gara-gara mempunyai wajah yang cantik atau handsome lalu berlagak betul! Kalau ada orang yang tidak cantik atau tidak handsome mau berkenalan atau menegur. Menjawap pun tidak; Ada yang menengking lagi tuu. "Hoi! Cermin muka dulu lah!" Bah, Jangan sombong bah! Ingatlah.... masanya akan tiba dimana kecantikan muka yang dibangga-banggakan itu akan menjadi kendur dan kerepot bin "kurudut."Jadi, baik-baik kepada semua orang tanpa mengira muka, warna kulit, status, kedudukan bangsa dan pegangan orang berkenaan. Pendek kata, binalah "kecantikan yang sejati" yang datang dari hati yang murni.

Bijak berhutang!

Jangan berhutang melebihi daripada kemampuan anda untuk membayarnya kembali. Jadi kalau gaji anda RM500.00, janganlah hutang RM500.50.

Hutanglah sikit-sikit, dimana anda mampu membayarnya

apabila menerima gaji dihujung bulan.

Misalnya hutang RM50.00.

Ahh kacang saja! Senang bah bayar hutang

kalau macam nii. Betul tak?

Grow up

You grow up the day you have your first real laugh - at yourself.

(Actress Ethel Barrymore)

Woman

Woman inspires us to great things, and

prevents us from achieving them.

(Dumas)

Marriage

After marriage, husband and wife become two sides of a coin; they just can't face each other, but still they stay together. Hemant Joshi

Mahu masuk Surga

Banyak orang mahu masuk Surga tetapi kehidupan

mereka setiap hari bagaikan orang yang tidak

mahu masuk Surga. Jestru itu, jadilah orang

beriman yang taat dan setia kepada

Tuhan. Amin.

Lupa.

Jangan lupa bertakwa dan beribadat kepada

Tuhan supaya tidak dilupakan oleh

Tuhan di kemudian hari.

Worth Doing

Sometimes something worth doing

is worth over-doing.

(David Letterman)

Bodoh?

Manusia bukan bodoh cuma kurang

pengalaman dan pelajaran. Dan

kurang bertanggungjawap!

Sayang....

Didalam percintaan ucapan "Aku sayang.......padamu" tidak mencukupi

dan tidak menyakinkan hati yang dahagakan cinta sejati!

Berdoalah...

Berdoalah bukan sekadar untuk memohon sesuatu daripada

Tuhan tetapi lebih-lebih lagi kerana anda mengakui dan

mengimani Tuhan yang Mahas Esa; Dia layak

disembah dan dipuji! Amin.

Jangan lupa kawan

Kalau kawan kawan kita lupa pada kita, janganlah merajuk atau berkecil hati. Mungkin kesibukan atau pergolakan hidup setiap hari membuat mereka demikian. Tetapi

apa yang penting ialah kita sendiri. Jangan lupa kawan-kawan. Baik lama

maupun yang baru.

Politic

In politics, if you want anything said, ask a man.

If you want anything done ask a woman.

(Margaret Thatcher)

Ups & Downs

"The 'Ups & Downs' in Life is What

makes Life worth Living"(LAT).

Hidup ini

Hidup ini bukanlah suatu permainan. Sebab itu janganlah main-main semasa

hidup didunia ini. Hiduplah sebagai insan yang baik dan setia

kepada Tuhan yang Maha Esa.

Tipu

Kadang-kadang kita kena tipu orang. Semoga pengalaman pahit dan sakit seperti ini,

membuat kita lebih berhati-hati dengan

orang dimasa-masa akan datang. Dan

memantapkan kepercayaan kita

bahawa menipu adalah jahat,

salah dan dosa.

Jestru itu, janganlah kita yang menipu orang.

Persahabatan abadi

Bersahabat biarlah untuk

selama-lamanya.

Terlalu kerja

Janganlah terlalu buat kerja sehingga lupa sembayang. Kerana kalau esok-esok kita mati, kerja yang tak siap orang lain boleh teruskan. Tetapi kalau semabayang peribadi tidak siap, tidak ada siapa pun yang boleh teruskan sembayang yang kita tinggalkan. Sebab itu, dahulukanlah kehendak Tuhan dan bukannya kehendak tuah!

Dosa

Dosa menjadi-jadi kerana

manusia

lebih sukakan

setan daripada Tuhan!

Love

"Love is a promise, love is a souvenir,

once given, never forgotten,

never let it disappear..."

(JOHN LENNON)

Bersopan-santun

Bersopan-santun sentiasa membawa kebaikan dan

menguntungkan. Sebab itu sentiasalah bersopan

didalam segala hal.

Cinta

Cinta tidak semestinya bersatu tetapi cinta

harus berterusan tanpa mengenal masa,

status dan keadaan. Kerana Cinta harus abadi!

Mati-mati

Lebih baik mati-mati mencuba

daripada mati tanpa mencuba.

No darkness

Jesus Christ says:

"He who follows me,

does not walk

in darkness"

(John 8:12).

Peace

The more humble a man is and

the more subject to God,

the more wise will he be

in all things,

and the more at peace.

(Thomas A Kempis)

Kerja; Pekerjaan

Banyak orang berhenti mencari kerja
apabila mereka mendapat pekerjaan!

Work;Job

Many people stop looking for work
when they find a job!

Basic for happiness

Something to do,
something to love and
something to look forward to.

The best time

The best time to do something worthwhile is

between yesterday and tomorrow.

Do it TODAY!

Kahwinlah

Kahwinlah dengan orang yang bukan saja

anda cintai tetapi yang juga mencintai

mu sepenuh hati.

Learn more

Learn more; Learn new things and new skills.

Don't stop the flow of knowledges into your mind.

Otherwise you will be left behind!

Mencintai

Kita tak perlukan kebenaran untuk mencintai

kerana mencintai adalah misi

didalam hidup kita.

Criticism

Don't mind criticism, if it's not true,

disregard it;

It's unfair, keep from irritation;

If it's ignorant, smile...;

If it's justified, learn from it.

Life

Yesss.........life may be not so fair

but it's still GOOD!

Random charity!

Try "random charity."

Give more than expected.

Two instead of one;

Three instead of two.

Yes! Surprise them! Give More!

True happiness

True happiness is to be satisfied

with what we have.

Cinta senyap

Bila anda mencintai seseorang, tidak semestinya

anda terus memberitahunya. Sudah memadai jika anda

melahirkannya melalui perbuatan yang

senyap namun nyata.

Tidak salah

Tidak salah mencintai seseorang meskipun

anda tidak mungkin akan dapat hidup

bersama-sama dengannya.Kerana

cinta tidak semestinya bersatu.

Jangan beritahu...

Jangan sekali-kali memberitahu orang bagaimana

membuat sesuatu kerja. Beritahu mereka apa yang

harus dibuat dan mereka akan mengejutkan anda

dengan kepintaran mereka.

(General George Smith Patton, Jr.)

Never tell...

Never tell people how to do things. Tell them what to do

and they will surprise you with their ingenuity.

(General George Smith Patton, Jr.)

Prudence

Prudence is the virtue that disposes pratical reason to discern our true good in every circumstance and to choose the right means of achieving it; right reason in action.

Motive

Never judge a person's action until

you know his/her motives.

Trade; Learning

Some people prefer learning the tricks of the

trade rather than the trade itself that why

they remain a good workers but not a

businessmen or buisnesswomen.

Friends and Bees

Some friends are like bees. They can give you

honey as well as sting you at any time if you

are not nice to them.

Evil and Good

The best way to avoid evil
is to pursue good.

Permission

You do not need a permission to love
because it's your mission to love.

Great compliment

When you really love some people as your good or best friends,

don't get upset if some people think that you love them

more than that. Take it as a great compliment!

God

Isn't it better to live the world believing in God and die finding none, than to live the world as a non-believer only to find (after we die) that there really is GOD. (It'll be too late then.)But for sure God exists. Otherwise, Who gives us life? Who creates this world?

Give and share

Don't wait until you have extra in order to give something to someone,
just share whatever you have eventhough it might be little.
It is the act of kindness that the counts most and not so
much the amount you give.

Beautiful.

Life is not always beautiful but you can remain beautiful in your heart forever.

Friendship Forever

"To laugh or to cry,

to live or to die,

in friendship we

shall never part!"

Trust;mercy

"Trust the past to God's mercy and the future to

God's divine providence."

(St.Teresa of Avila)

Love and Happiness

"The supreme happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved."

(Victor Hugo)

"For God loves the world so much that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life"( John 3:16).